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: i have been dating this guy for about two months...were both past 30.... money is extremely tight for me right now to the point i can hardly buy food or pay my bills.

he has been spending over 5 nights a week at my house and eating what measely dinners i can come up with. he also does a ton of laundry at my house sometimes twice a week. at first he was bringing his own soap and then he started using mine. he showed up last night with another HUGE basket of laundry and NO SOAP....i asked him where his soap was and he asked if he could use mine.

my water bill was really high and so i had the talk with him .

i told him that i dont expect him to pay my bills because he doesnt live with me but that i cant afford to feed him dinner or let him do his laundry here. he said that he has helped me out by one time spending 30 dollars on grocery and sometimes he'll pay 3-7 dollars for jack in the box tacos.

i will give him credit for giving me rides to doctors apts and stuff sometimes because i dont have my license right now....but damn.

what really got me was that he KNEW how little food i had and helped himself to it anyways without EVER replacing it. .....only promises of going to 'help me out'....

well...when i had the talk with him last night he said that i was calling him lazy, he became pissed and told me that he wont spend the night at my house anymore, do his laundry here, and he walked out the door.

i feel guilty in a way because thats a hard talk to have with someone but basically i told him that just because he's my boyfriend doesnt mean he can take advantage of me. if i was at a friends house 6 nights a week doing laundry and eating dinner....i would expect the same discussion.

so .....he dumped me over this.

he sent me a text and told me that he's not rich and i called him lazy and that we have no future together. it really frkng hurts because he knows how i dont have any family relationships or friends to count on and i needed him...and now he is so offended at what i said he is gone....i was just trying to set some boundaries.

he never loved me did he?
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: No he didn't love you. It's quiet obvious that you were being used. You should be GLAD that its over. Next time find a boyfriend, not some one you have to babysit.
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